Embarrassed~

I wish I could send you more pictures of little me in that tiny white dress~ *Click click* went the camera *Thump thump* went my heart I was trying to be cute but all the time I was thinking of you~ Would you think me cute if I put one paw up and meowed? Would…

You’ll never regret being kind

Last Saturday night I was on my way to work when I was stopped by a middle-aged woman sitting in front of London Drugs. She said she was 2 months pregnant and had desperate needs. I confessed to her I had no cash on me, but I did have my credit card and food on…

I only remember~

I remember every little thing you have done for me whether or not you remember them. The smallest of gestures still move me to tears and put a smile on my face whenever I remember them. The way you stumbled with words whenever I outwit you and call you baka. The knee-jerk panic reaction you…

Four Angels of a Health Relationship: Part III of the Relationship Trilogy

We continue our metaphor on four make-or-break qualities and conditions in relationships. Like the four horsemen that serve to make poor relationships, factors that contribute to a health one also come in quadruplets. In contrast to our harbingers of destruction, below are the four angels to the throne of a strong relationship. Self-control Self-control is…

Girl Version & Guy Version of Friendship & Dating

First Impression Guy: You see a girl and you think, Hey, she looks cute. You approach her to introduce yourself and proceed to drop some of what you believe to be suave charm. She laughs and seems friendly, so you gather up your courage and ask her to “hang out” with you sometime. She agrees,…

To the Boys

You’d have to be someone outside of school or work. You’d have to be a complete stranger, not my colleague, not my peer, not my student, and certainly not my professional clients, for this to work. You’d meet me somewhere: coffee shop, bank, bus stop, school, clubs, my daytime/midnight workplace, social media, etc. You’d lay…

Little Things that Matter

Over the long weekend, I was told by two different people how I helped her/him pay attention to the little things in life. Upon seeing the berry posts I had on my Facebook, she asked where I had found them on campus and told me how nice it is to be reminded to pay attention…

My Makeup Story

You’d think that with my jobs and professional experiences I would have already become a makeup guru by now. The truth is, I still cannot do makeup to save my life, which is one of the reasons why I shun it. The only times I would begrudgingly oblige are when I am under professional coercion,…

Best Love, True Love: A Line

Loving someone means wanting the best for them. I love you, Anthony. That is why I am going to be the best for you~ I know you are working to be the best for me too 🙂

Discriminatory and Second-class Kindness

It was my senior labmate`s birthday last week. On her Facebook timeline, her grandmother-in-law complimented her as a “loving, caring, compassionate, sweet woman”, while her husband wrote that she is “the best wife [he has].” In school, this “loving” woman would chase a janitorial staff down the hallway to carp on the latter’s cleaning job;…

Night and Day: A Line

They all fear the darkness of the night and eager for the beginning of the day~ Yet, for me, Nights are easier than days without you~ Your dreams for me are my solace